"You cannot change what you do not
recognize in yourself."
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“I just don’t like me.” Many people make this
statement because they lack clarity about themselves, and what they don’t
understand, they judge negatively.
A worthwhile
goal, then, would be finding a way to improve this understanding of your inner
self. Understanding can be improved through communication. How do you
communicate with you? Journaling can be an effective tool to enhance
communication with your inner self.
Recognition
(being self aware) is a key component of emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence is simply the awareness
of, and the ability to manage and command, one's own emotions through respect
of those emotions. Recognition creates the opportunity to reflect, assess and
make necessary changes. It also helps you to become clear about what you truly
want out of life and to have something to focus on, put into action steps and achieve
what you actually want.
Journaling
is one way of gaining a true picture of yourself, developing emotional
intelligence and becoming clear about your core beliefs and goals in life.
However, journaling also has many other benefits including enhancing growth and
knowledge.
The power of
journaling is taking what you think in the ethereal plane (somewhere out there)
and bringing to reality in writing. Once it is in your journal, it becomes your truth.
Journaling
is not the same as writing a daily diary. A diary is a record of daily
experiences, thoughts and reactions to those events.
Journal writing is an effective way to record personal thoughts, dreams, barriers, fears, excitements, experiences, ideas, inventions, successes and evolving insights. Journaling can
also serve as a way to gain mental clarity about events, experiences and emotions.
Just writing every day in a diary is not sufficient in itself to bring about
deep changes in one's life.
Journaling gives
you the ability to gain insight into, and the expression of, complex ideas,
visions, intentions and recognition to the subconscious to reach a deeper
understanding.
Journaling can
serve as a platform for your personal opinions, hopes, barriers, fears, inner
conflicts, dilemmas, challenges, issues, evolving views, confusion about core
values and beliefs, life changes and other problems that come up in life.
Here are 7 simple tips to effective journaling:
1. A journal is your private record just for you and only you.
2. Sign up for the Making a Positive Change (MPC) free membership and gain access to the free live daily journal so that you can comfortably allow your feelings, thoughts and emotions to flow without fear of someone seeing your entries.
3. Find a time with the least distractions to write on your computer in your MPC journal. Be comfortable and express yourself freely.
4. Create different portions in your MPC journal. Section off a part for gratitude, wishes, joys and visions of the future and create another part for barriers, problems, ideas or resentments that keep you stuck from getting what you want.
5. Write without worrying about grammar, form or judgment. Writing without restrictions and judgments produces a deep focus known as being "in a creative zone.”
6. Write for quantity. Give yourself permission to open your mind to express every thought and emotion that arises that affects your actions or relationship with your inner self. If you come up with a "Wow” moment, acknowledge it and keep writing. You can come back to it later.
7. If you intend to express emotion, use phrases beginning with "I feel …" For wants or visions, begin sentences with “I deserve …” Ideas and thoughts start with “I think …” This allows you to separate them and recognize the differences.
Remember, you can create and write a journal for every area of your life - gratitude, dreams, memoirs, emotions, intentions and dreams. Journaling is a key to knowing yourself more intimately and improving your relationship with you.
Be inspired and start a journal today. You deserve it.
Benefits of journaling:
Benefits of journaling:
· Increases clarity in your thoughts
· Find out what is subconsciously blocking
or motivating you
· Identify various subconscious negative core
beliefs
· Reveal buried resentments
· Discover hidden problems
· Determine subconscious dreams
· Gain perspective over difficult
situations
· Open a channel for communication with
your higher intelligence
The effectiveness
of journaling is determined by the way you approach the writing. The approach
should be authentic and positive. Write openly without fear, judgment, blame, justification
or shame. In fact, the very act of writing this way can lead to personal
freedom. Journaling can create the opportunity for greater self-love and self-understanding.
Questions to ask
Have you kept a journal in the past?
Why did you stop?
Have you kept a journal for years?
Why do you continue journaling?
Why do you continue journaling?
What’s the greatest benefit you've
found from journaling?
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Dr. Bill, I have never looked at journaling the way you have described it here. I really like the idea about breaking your journaling down into different categories...dreams, emotions, processing concerns...etc.... I think that would really help me in my journaling, especially when I want to go back later and go over certain areas.
ReplyDeleteYou also stated about writing out your thoughts...without stopping and worrying about spelling, grammar...etc. That really works...at least for me. Journaling helps me to communicate with my inner self and it give great clarity when I am able to write it out as I am thinking about certain things because if I stop to try to understand something as I am writing a lot of the times I get side tracked and can lose some of the important thoughts... going back later to process them has helped me a lot.
Thanks for sharing your wisdom on improving our process of journaling...it will help me in my journaling in the future...a lot of good ideas.
Anonymous - Thank you so much for writing a wonderful comment. I am glad that you benefited from and gained new ideas on how to journal better for you from my blog.
ReplyDeleteFreedom to journal without worrying is very beneficial to successful communication with self.
Continue to follow my blog. Blessings